Cultivating Connection: Nurturing Our Partnership with the Khasi People

Cultivating Connection: Nurturing Our Partnership with the Khasi People

During the month of May, East Shore will celebrate our partnership with the Khasi people, who live in the rain-blessed hills of Meghalaya, India. On May 5th we will dedicate our worship service to the bond that East Shore has with these Unitarian friends.

Rev. Morgan McLean, the Global Connection Program Manager for the UUA’s Global Connection and Emerging Community Office, will describe a new approach to global partnerships.

Our Khasi Hills Ministry Team will share how transformational their partnering experience has been.

This is a special Share-the-Plate service, where all donations will be shared with our two partner churches.

Please give especially generously on May 5th to support their community projects and educational programs.

Our Khasi partnership is a truly precious bond that transcends borders and cultures, a bond that embodies the essence of our Unitarian Universalist values. More than anything, this partnership is about deepening relationships between people. Amidst the rolling green Khasi Hills, live teachers, students, and members of the Khasi community—a people who are deeply committed to shaping their own destiny. Their dreams embody their aspirations of self-sufficiency, sustainability, and empowerment. Despite differences in faith and culture, we celebrate their Unitarian beliefs and long-upheld indigenous perspectives.

Our connection with the Khasi People runs deep, rooted in mutual respect and solidarity. From the humble beginnings of our partnership to its evolution over the years, we have embraced cultural humility, setting aside our egos to listen deeply and learn from one another. Trust is central to our partnership… trust that has grown through years of building relationships and honoring each other’s voices.
This partnership is not about charity but about shared humanity and shared dreams. Through this partnership, we expand our horizons, find common ground and discover new ways of understanding the world. Our journey with the Khasi People has been a transformative one. Through deep reflection and cultural exchange, we have gained insights into our own privileges and biases, fostering a spirit of deep humility and empathy.

At the heart of our partnership is a commitment to education, to nurturing the hunger for learning among the youth of the Khasi community. Witnessing their growth and success fills us with profound joy and reaffirms the transformative power of education. Our shared endeavors in education and community development have thrived, creating hope and opening doors to new opportunities. Here at East Shore right now, we have 20 members who are connected with a Khasi student whose education they sponsor. They stay connected through writing and sending letters.

We extend a heartfelt invitation to each member and friend of our congregation to join us in the Khasi partnership. I encourage you to explore new horizons, and to discover the surprising joy that comes from connecting with individuals whose lives may seem worlds apart from our own. Here are some ways you might join in:

  • Volunteer for projects like the upcoming Trinkets and Treasures rummage sale, donate items to the sale, or just come to shop at the sale!
  • You may be able to travel with us on a transformative journey to the Khasi Hills, where you will experience the richness of their culture firsthand.
  • Join a youth pilgrimage to the Khasi Hills in the summer of 2025 — as a youth, a parent, or a youth advisor — or contribute to support the youth service project.
  • Sponsor a Khasi student who is selected from the neediest families by the local sponsorship committee and enable them to stay in school.
  • Immerse yourself in a spiritual journey by studying the history, culture and religion of the Khasis. We have some fascinating resource materials to loan you.

Together, let us recommit to East Shore’s partnership with the Khasi People. Your presence, your passion, and your willingness to engage not only will shape the future of our partnership but also helps widen the path towards a more interconnected and compassionate world.

Please bring your curiosity and enthusiasm and join us at the May 5th East Shore worship service.

Khublei! Doug Strombom and Barb Clagett, Co-leaders, Khasi Hills Ministry Team

Start saving your items for Trinkets and Treasures!

Start saving your items for Trinkets and Treasures!

Are you downsizing, organizing or just fed up with clutter?

Start now to put aside items for the upcoming Trinkets and Treasures rummage sale that will take place July 18-20th East Shore.

All funds raised will go to pay the wonderful teachers at the Friendship School in Kharang, Meghalaya, NE India.

What are we looking for? Clean, usable items such as:

  • Clothing – women’s, men’s, and children’s clothing and shoes
  • Baby clothing and equipment
  • Kitchenware (cooking and serving items) and small appliances
  • Household items for bed and bath, small electronic items
  • Household tools, garden tools and supplies
  • Children’s toys and books; puzzles and games
  • Arts and craft supplies
  • Sporting equipment and bicycles
  • Camping and hiking equipment
  • Decorative knick knacks and small antiques
  • Jewelry
  • Art works – paintings, prints, sculpture, hangings,

(Please don’t donate large furniture, books, CD’s, pet equipment or supplies, picture frames)

Ideally, please label boxes or bags with the above categories.

Drop off at church Sunday July 14th through Wednesday July 17th.  If you’ll be away that week, contact Barb Clagett to arrange early drop off.

Khasi Hills Partnership Will Feature on May 5th Share the Plate

Khasi Hills Partnership Will Feature on May 5th Share the Plate

We in the Khasi Hills Ministry Team are excited that East Shore’s partnership with Unitarians in the Northeast of India will be featured at the upcoming Share the Plate event on May 5.  Rev. Morgan McLean, who heads the UUA’s international partnership program will present.  We will learn how the UUA is using inclusive methods to redefine our faith’s approach to international partnerships.

We also thought it would be helpful to tell East Shore’s friends and members some basic information about our partnership.

First off, who are the Khasi people?  The Khasis are an indigenous people living on a high plateau between Bangladesh and Bhutan.  The Khasis live in an autonomous state in India called Meghalaya with other indigenous peoples.  The Khasis are related ethnically and through language to SE Asian peoples.

Why are there 10,000 Unitarians in this remote hill country of NE India?  For over 140 years, there has been a thriving and growing union of Unitarian churches in the Khasi Hills.  At that time, their founders created a new religion based on a mixture of traditional and progressive values.  When they discovered British and American Unitarianism, they chose to call themselves Unitarian and associate with international Unitarian churches.

How did East Shore get involved in a partnership with Khasi Unitarians?  In the 1990s, our emeritus minister, Rev. Dr. Leon Hopper, became a founder of the modern UUA partnership movement.  He and other East Shore members traveled to visit the Khasi Unitarians.  We formed a church-to-church partnership with the Unitarian churches of Kharang and Smit, a village and town, respectively.

Why does East Shore focus on education?  The short answer is because we were asked to!  In early visits to Kharang, the Khasis participated with us in Community Capacity Building workshops.  The Church Council of our partner church in Kharang then asked East Shore to focus on education, and to help them build an English-medium primary school.  Watch this 5-minute video for perspectives on why education is so important to them and the history of the Friendship Unitarian School of Kharang.

Is our Khasi Partnership still thriving? Yes, definitely!  Over time we have built up an enormous amount of trust, mutual understanding, and ability to cooperate to achieve great goals together. Our relationships have never been stronger, and we are in constant communication through WhatsApp, Facebook, and regular conferences.

What are you planning for in 2024?  After the May 5th Share the Plate, our focus will turn to raising funds to support seven teachers’ salaries at the Friendship School.  We do this by holding a community-wide rummage sale in East Shore’s sanctuary called Trinkets and Treasures (July 19-20th).  It’s a lot of fun and helps East Shore members clear out their closets!  We also have a student sponsorship program for over 20 of the most economically challenged students in the village.  Our East Shore sponsors have one-on-one relationships with these young students.  Exciting news: East Shore’s Youth Group is starting to plan a visit to the Khasi Hills in the summer of 2025!

All of these programs are exciting and serve others.  We gain so much of value from our association with the Khasi people. Please attend the May 5 service to learn about why this partnership is a precious asset to East Shore, and to provide your moral support to our hard-working ministry team.
– Doug Strombom and Barb Clagett

Start saving your items for Trinkets and Treasures!

Trinkets & Treasures a Success

We give heartfelt thanks to the generous donors, to more than 40 hard-working volunteers, to East Shore’s incredibly supportive staff, and to the many shoppers who made our annual Trinkets & Treasures rummage sale the most successful ever! Together we raised more than $6,300, built community, cleared out our closets, upcycled many items and had lots of fun. New this year: the Campus Aesthetics Team pitched in with an amazing Art Swap, which raised substantial funds for the T&T sale.

The proceeds support teacher salaries at the Unitarian Friendship School, an English-medium primary school run by our partner church in Kharang, Meghalaya, NE India. This year marks the twelfth year East Shore’s has supported the Friendship School. In 2010, our Khasi Unitarian friends had identified education as the primary focus for our partnership. The Friendship School continues to do an outstanding job of qualifying village children for ongoing studies at the high school and university level.

We received praise for Trinkets & Treasures from several seasoned rummage sale shoppers for how well-organized East Shore’s sale was. We hope we built grace with the wider community, and some momentum for even greater success next year.

by Doug Strombom & Barb Clagett, Khasi Hills Ministry Team

Trinkets and Treasures Returns!

Trinkets and Treasures Returns!

Trinkets and Treasures is our annual church sale that benefits the Friendship School operated by our Unitarian partners in the Khasi Hills of India. East Shore’s members have always been so generous in helping us run the sale and contributing items to be sold. We’re glad to be back after two successful PartnerPalooza events during Covid!

We’ll hold the sale in the Sanctuary Building on August 3-5. August 3rd is a special members-only presale event.

We’re asking you to please step up to this challenge again during the first week of August. Here’s how you can help:

  • Save your stuff for the sale! We need usable clothing for all ages, sizes, and shapes, plus usable housewares, sheets, towels, dishes, sports equipment, toys, games, art, jewelry, special items and more. We won’t be selling books, large electronics, or furniture this year.
  • If you need to unburden yourselves of any items right now or won’t be here in August to deliver them to the Sanctuary, please contact Doug Strombom. We have a back-up plan.
  • Step up and volunteer! We need helpers to sort, organize, price, and sell all the donations. We’ll begin collecting items in the North Room after worship service on Sunday, July 30, through Wednesday, August 2. We’ll have volunteer job opportunities all week until the sale ends on Saturday, August 5.

This sale finances the Khasi Hills Friendship school for an entire year! Every donation counts. Thank you in advance!

by Doug Strombom, Khasi Hills Ministry Team

Hitting the Road for Education

Hitting the Road for Education

You are invited to a Send-Off Event in the foyer after worship service on Sunday, March 5, to bid farewell to our East Shore members who are traveling to India and Nepal to connect with our partners in education there! We hope you will come to learn about the education-focused programs, write greeting cards to our partners, and give the travelers a hearty bon voyage. Khasi Hills Ministry Team (KHMT) will supply the coffee hour treats!

We will be traveling in late March-early April to visit two educational programs:

  • Khasi Hills Partners in NE India: We will renew our mutual understanding with our partners in the Friendship School and the Unitarian churches of Smit and Kharang.
  • ANSWER Nepal: We will be connecting with ANSWER to visit our sponsored students and the program leaders.

We are grateful to Mark Norelius, Elaine Richlie, Kathy and Alan Moritis, Barb Clagett, Vicki Roberts and Doug Strombom, for committing to these visits. We’d also like to thank those of you who considered traveling with us, but couldn’t make it this time. If anyone is interested in future opportunities to engage with partners, please contact Barb or Doug. We would be delighted to see you at our

by Doug Strombom